I’m not new to blogging, but am starting over. Again. For, like, the eleventeenth time. And if there’s anything I struggle with more than an About Me page, it’s the first post. The pressure to post something perfect always makes me second guess my intentions.
In a sea of millions (billions?) of blogs, what value can I bring to the table? Countless drafts have been written, with topics that run the gamut. None seemed worthy, and one after another was deleted. The familiar feelings of inadequacy started to tighten their grip around my throat.
I reached out to a blogger friend the other day in a mild panic, asking for her input because I know she’s not one to sugar coat. She responded to say I was overthinking. Which, yeah.. that’s kind of my thing. Her text gave me pause, though. It was an opportunity to ask myself some questions, and to gain much needed perspective.
So what if this isn’t perfect? So what if no one reads it? So what if the only view is from my husband because I sent him the link?
So what?
It’s a blog, Marla – you’re not saving lives.
That’s really what I need to remember.
Therefore, this post will serve as the proverbial bandaid being ripped off before another moment of overthinking can be had.
What are my intentions for this blog? Like most people, my interests are varied. I want this to be a place I can share whatever I want, whether it’s a piece of art I particularly enjoy, photos of my cat or a new hobby I inevitably give up after buying all the supplies for. A little of this mixed in with a little of that. All without feeling the need to stick between any imaginary lines.
For anyone starting out or feeling stuck, here’s your reminder to post the thing. Because in the grand scheme, it’s really not that deep.
Until next time, friends. When I share a little bit about the cool guy above, and it will hopefully make more sense to you why I chose him for this post.
Marla, Unpacked 